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Corona ... Don't be a loner

I'd like to share some extracts of an article with you all. In these difficult times it may be of some help - and, at the end of the...

Which Love Style Are You?

Did you know there are eight main styles of love; or the way you love? Choosing someone with a similar or complementary love style makes...

Tin Man Craves a Dorothy

Most people have at some point seen the Wizard of Oz, but how many really relate it to real life? Do we know a Dorothy or a Tin Man? The...

You Get What You Deserve ... or Do You?

Sometimes I see clients who get very anxious about taking time out. They are always occupied with matters for their family, their work...

Coaching works - Counselling Doesn't

"The differences between coaching and counselling - Coaching is action orientated, whereas counselling is coping orientated".... This is...

Counselling doesn’t work…

I am always mystified by those who insist counselling does not work. Since 2006 I have been counselling people from all walks of life,...

Envy : How to manage it

Following on from the post about jealousy and envy; what can be done about it? Sometimes it is not practical to remove envious people...

Jealousy vs Envy

Many people confuse jealousy and envy. Jealousy is when a person feels their relationship is threatened by their partner’s association,...

Anger, an issue?

Anger, Aggression, and Passive Aggression There are many articles on anger. Some way anger is never a good feeling because it is...

To be or not to be?

Is anger good or bad? There are many sayings on the subject of anger – few, if any, recommend it. Before I post on the subject of anger...

Resilience - Bouncing Back

This week several things caused me to reflect on resilience. What makes some people more resilient than others? The first thing likely to...

The Dark Emotions

Much has been said about negative emotions, how we should control our lives by our thoughts; that if we can only change our thought...

The Narcissistic Personality

The forming of the narcissistic personality according to analytical developmental psychology.

Because you deserve it!

We all feel a bit down at times. Instead of finding comfort in things that are not so nurturing maybe try the following... try...

Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT)

EFT uses techniques similar to Cognitive Therapy and Exposure Therapy. A client assesses how they feel about a certain situation and...

The Therapeutic Alliance

The therapeutic alliance is one of the main factors which encourage positive outcomes from counselling and psychotherapy. Therefore it is...

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